I absolutely adore being a stay at home mom. It is by far the hardest and most rewarding thing I’ve ever done. I’m good with wiping noses and bottoms. Tantrums suck, but they happen.
Am I a good mom? Eh, overall I do ok.
A good wife? I try.
But a domestic goddess I am not.
My perfect housekeeping gene is broken. I’m domestically impaired. I keep a decently clean house, but I will never have my home on the cover of Good Housekeeping.
It is okay. I have other talents. I’ve made peace with the toys on the floor. (One day my children will call when their foot is impaled by a Lego one of their kids left out… And I’ll smile.) I’m not going to fret over my bookshelf being jumbled. (It will just get jumbled again.)
If you are a domestic goddess, I applaud you. I’m glad you are using your talent. Keep on scrubbing and changing decorations to fit the seasons and creating elaborate lunch box dioramas for your kids’ lunches. (That is what you do, right?)
This post is for the rest of us. For those who don’t care about “Tablescapes” or “Perfect Parsnip Soup”.
I submit for approval from my domestically challenged sisters my idea for a new magazine: Mediocre Housekeeping.
Article ideas:
How to Avoid Your Home Looking Like an Episode of Hoarders
Best Deodorants: When you haven’t had a shower in three days and may be harboring cereal fugitives in your hair
Strategies for Peeing Alone: A guide to getting 5 minutes a day to urinate in peace
How to Have Adequate “Adult Time” When the Baby Will Wake Any Minute: It won’t knock his socks off, but it’ll do.
I am covered in sleeping kids and I have to pee. What now?
Surviving the Tantrum: When your child collapses in the bread aisle.
How many days can I wear these yoga pants before I need to wash them?
Where are Max and Ruby’s parents? An investigation.
A Guide to Period Panties
Breastfeeding Etiquette: Just deal with it or look away.
Getting three kids and a dog into the car
Where do all the socks go?
Yep… I’d read that magazine.